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I received the following several days ago and decided that with the group of friends that read my site this is a very appropriate question.

Do you ever wonder just how you got to where you are in life? Do you ever look at your life and think, “this just isn’t what I planned”?

I get the feeling that right now several people I know are going though this. College is finished, the working life has begun and we’ve all been thrown a curve ball or two on the way. I think for most of us it’s just starting to sink in that this is for real.

I have, on several occasions, been accused of planning excessively. This is true, but I have considered it and come to the conclusion that while I do plan to an extreme it seems to be limited to the stupidest things. The larger, more important items I have settled for a vague idea. Life never seems to work out the way you plan it, so in the end it’s easier to roll with the punches and be happy with what you have. I’m not saying you shouldn’t try, just don’t be too disappointed if it doesn’t go your way. Things always seem to work out for the best in the end. Yes, that is my official non-answer to this question, how about you?